The Power of 9: Emotional Intelligence, Self-Reflection, Self-Love, Spiritual Awakening, and Goal Setting
- SonKissed Soul
- Feb 4, 2024
- 3 min read
Updated: Feb 23
2016: The Year That Shaped My Journey
Life is a journey of ebbs and flows, and 2016 was the year that pushed me into the version of myself that stands today. It was a rollercoaster of emotions—an experience that tested my strength, boundaries, and self-worth.
Losing Myself to Find Myself
I lost myself in love, in people who didn’t reciprocate the same vulnerability I extended. I had no boundaries, no safeguards to protect my energy. I was trapped in a tunnel vision of love, blinded to the warning signs my intuition was desperately trying to reveal.
Somewhere between transitioning into my true self and investing in individuals who were undeserving of my essence, I lost sight of me.
The Path of Least Resistance & The Laws of Attraction
Looking back, I realize I strayed from my destined path. I sought comfort in familiarity, taking the path of least resistance to obtain a false sense of family and love.
My subconscious mind operated in survival mode, making choices based on fear rather than faith. I failed to consciously live in the present, and instead, I unknowingly manifested deeper struggles by believing in illusions rather than truth.
I was getting older, yearning for a family to bond with, but instead, I kept finding myself as the “third wheel” in relationships that drained me. I had accomplished so much, yet I felt alone.
The Illusion of Instant Gratification
Then came the “instant family.” Like any blended dynamic, there were highs and lows. But the scales tipped with too many cons. I became the She-Ro to everyone but myself.
Hindsight revealed the toxicity of those relationships. Though painful, they became valuable lessons, catalysts for my transformation. I vowed to honor my worth and enter future relationships with intention and discernment.
This journey has been nothing short of awakening and enlightening.
Understanding the Laws of Attraction & Self-Alignment
I now innerstand the power of the Laws of Attraction and the conditioning that once held me captive. I shifted my focus inward, prayed, pulled myself out of the darkness, and manifested the best version of me.
Through emotional intelligence, journaling, and self-reflection, I realized that love, boldness, and strength were always within me. I never needed to seek them externally.
The Power of Self-Love & Alignment
Today, I stand in alignment—unbothered, at peace, and full of love. I’ve learned to appreciate individuals for where they are in their journey, without compromising my own energy.
As I continue to honor myself and give praise to The Creator, I embrace this moment with gratitude. I share my truth and experiences, not only as a testimony to my resilience but as a beacon for others navigating their own transformations.
I am living in the now, aligned, whole, and unwavering in my purpose.
Breathe Again
I wished that I could be here for you
In the realm that you lay.
But you see, I had to go somewhere, that I am comfortable and welcomed to stay.
The spirits that are attached to you, are in disagreement with themselves.
They push you, then push me away.
You must unlearn to relearn your Truths and Light within.
The Battle has already been won, Meditate, Manifest, and stay focused in the Sun.
Block the words of the weak, You have always been beautiful and strong.
Your ambience is unique; heart of a blue whale
No one can compete.
You are your only competition, so stop petitioning, for the ignorance of the false, half-listening. Set the stage for Abundance…Your Greatness
For there is more in store.
-Asé
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I love this! Thank you for sharing your journey. ❤️